Is it weird that I don't know any of my neighbors? In Indianapolis, through a couple rental houses and apartments, I only met maybe 3 or 4 of my neighbors. In one house we shared a driveway with another house, so I talked to them a few times. Once they asked me to please shut my window when I was fucking. In Atlanta I met several neighbors in the two years I lived in a house, but didn't talk to any of them regularly. I made an attempt to make friends with these rednecks who lived down the street, and played paintball with them. They ended up rolling me for a couple hundred bucks on car repairs (actually my wife's fault). I knocked on my next door neighbor's door tonight to tell them their car door was open- and realized it's the second time I've spoken to them in the year and a half I've lived here. And I've never spoken to any other neighbors. Am I a dick and a bad neighbor or is this normal in an urban neighborhood?