I was thinking about MJ the other day and how he had those kids with out the mother being involved.
The first one (maybe the second too, I don't rem) the kid knew who the parent was (Debbie Rowe), the second and third no one knows who the mother is. Well Debbie Rowe definitely came back to bite him even though he took every precaution to make sure she couldn't.
On the last kid he did it right.
So it got me to thinking that this is actually the best way to do it if, and this is a big if, if you are a stable (MJ wasn't) wealthy man who wants to have kids. Advantages below...
1. I mean why have two variables making very important decisions about raising the kids? It just causes conflict and the constant push and pull between the parents about whos turn it is, I did it last time, you aren't spending enough time with the kids etc... Is so detrimental to kids. Any tension between parents is horrible for kids.
2. You don't have to worry about some woman taking your kid from you. No shared rights, no visitation, no moms new boy friend fucking your kid in the ass, no moms new boy friend raising your kid, no mom using your kids against you and turning them against you, etc...
3. No child support
What could be seen as disadvantages..
1. No mother figure. Well the divorce rate is at 60% and of the 40% that stay married I would argue they are still on avg doing more damage to thier kids than this situation could. I mean almost every person I know has mommy and daddy issues on some level. Don't forget you would have an au pair that is very loving but not in quite the same way as a real mother and wouldn't play herself of as filling that role. But the kids would still have a strong female figure in their life, not to mention the other women around you.
2. Thats the only one and I don't think it is any less harmful than what happens in a typical kids life in todays households.
Obviously this route doesn't include marriage, but who the fuck is dumb enough to do that (I was 25 and got very lucky with my girl and it still isn't peaches and cream). There is no reason or advantage to get married period. It's just people being insecure and locking each other up through legal and financial means.
In my scenario you could still have long term committed relations with women. Obv you wouldn't introduce every slut to your kids, but the ones you did would obv have to be loving to your children and be cool with it. Don't forget these women know that you will never have kids with them since your shit would be snipped (with sperm saved if you wanted to have more, but not with any girl you know) and they would also know you were never going to marry them.
I know most of you think that a person living this way would never get girls but that is just you being insecure. If a girl likes you it is over. You can pee on them and beat them every morn and they will still love you. Now imagine if you treat them great.