QUOTE(DanDruff @ Oct 9 2009, 02:56 PM)

When I spoke of "few men" liking you, I was referring to liking you enough to be a potential girlfriend. I'm sure that you meet plenty of men who like you enough for a one-night-stand
And how exactly would you know what every single man wants when they meet me? Every time I have talked to someone, met someone, gone to a bar, met a classmate, met a guy at work, walking down the street, going to a party, Someone I shared beautiful moments with, you can honestly say that you know
exactly what every single man on earth is thinking? If so, I will applaud you as a gifted genius to have the ability to read 1000's of billions peoples minds simultaneously. That's quite a talent. Especially if you think they are robots like you are.
Unfortunately, this doesn't sound like genius material. It sounds like a biased and abusive assumption of how you choose to see things, not only in a sexist way that completely puts down my worth as a person, and that I am simply a sex object, but also in a way that makes you sound completely Jealous and/or ignorant of who I am as a person, to be able to say that I have nothing going personality wise except craziness.
The problem with your linear thinking is this: It's constructed because you clearly do not have any credibility to be able to judge me, being that you do not have a proper perspective about anything in my life other than my interactions with Ken. Like Stephanie, you convince yourself that I may not be as great a person as you fear me to be, to simply repress your resentment and jealousy toward me or of not being able to have me. You over exaggerate any faults to repress my good qualities, in order to taint your insecurity. You see the glass half empty and not half full.
Have you thought of why you choose to see people so negatively? That may be an instability inside yourself that you may want to work on.
QUOTE(DanDruff @ Oct 9 2009, 02:56 PM)

It has everything to do with your craziness.
You are not the "good" or "interesting" type of crazy. You are just crazy.
What specifically are you using to imply me as crazy? Crazy is a very vague word. Do you consider me being upset to see some girl with cum splattered over her face as me being crazy? Do you consider cum splattering on young woman's faces to be normal? Is degradation of females normal? Or is the conditioning that technology had on us make us think it's okay and normal to take interest in perverse things?
Ask yourself this: Is the world crazy or is it just Colleen?
You can either
1) Assume that I don't know what I'm talking about, insist that you're perfect, and repeat that it's the fault of Colleen in the world..
-or-
2) Shut up and listen for once, and actually take steps to improve yourself.
QUOTE(DanDruff @ Oct 9 2009, 02:56 PM)

while every woman is emotional to some degree, You take it to a ridiculous extreme that makes it appear you have escaped from a mental ward
Are you basing this on incidences where I freaked out under the pressure of living with Ken suffocating me and following me all around town, while his abusive friends are keying my car, breaking into my house, stealing my things and ripping up personal photographs (and you threatening extortion with them) a completely unprovoked response to the aggression, sadness and complete helplessness I was feeling?
I guess you think the act of ripping up photos, keying cars, and trying to extort me for simply wanting to leave for New York is not
mental ward material?
It seems easier to blame "little crazy girl" rather than taking responsibility for your abusive actions toward me.
Do you assume, with your all powerful "mind reading abilities", that I act this way with everybody else all the way out here in New York with my successful life and normal relationships with
normal people? Or are you basing this on an assumption from one experience you had while I was under the pressure of dealing with abuse?
QUOTE(DanDruff @ Oct 9 2009, 02:56 PM)

If you want to have a meaningful relationship with a normal, non-desperate guy, you are going to have to work on yourself and controlling your emotions.
Yes, I agree. That is something I am working on. Does that mean I am a diabolical nutcase? Too unstable to be walking on the streets and therefore being unable to function in a normal life?
I know you'll never admit, but I am functioning
quite well.
You on the other hand, sit on your computer all day long and at 37, have nothing to show for yourself except torturing and abusing someone 10 years younger than you over the internet.
Based on who you hang out with, and in the context to which you build your opinions, I would say that the last statement is the only one that has
any validity to it. But only about 50% and the rest is irrelevant.
As far as relationships part, People have relationship difficulties all the time. It isn't anything out of the ordinary. All People have problems, each and every one of them, including you, (though you are too arrogant to admit it) Which affect two people interacting with one another. After just getting out of a 7 year relationship, you have the complete audacity to embark on my relationships, and at that, get irate when people bring up Miri.